tumble-her whispered:
Your trigger is not valid. If that triggers you there is no way for you to function or add anything to society as you can not escape this. Just because it makes you feel sad, it isn't a trigger. A trigger is when a war vet gets a flashback to when he has seen a small child murdered before his eyes, or blown to bits. Stop diminishing real triggers with your fucking PSEUDO TRENDY SELF DIAGNOSED BULLSHIT.

Didn’t I JUST say that it wasn’t a legitimate trigger? I was comparing the brain’s ability to associate one thing with an experience, which can happen at levels OTHER THAN true traumatic flashbacks. You associate the sky with the color blue, right? Same mental process, obviously not a trigger.

I haven’t diagnosed myself with anything. Kindly duct tape your fingers together.

pinkmany:

pinkmany:

why was girl at school walking around with a goddamn starbucks cup wtf

and i’m not saying that bc “ughhhh stupid girls and their starbucks”

but like

there are no starbucks in this country…. the closes one is 220 miles away

so…. did she come back from the one in austria just before class started?

or did she get the cup online or somewhere, made coffee at home and brought it here in that cup?

it wasn’t even one of those fancy cups, it was the cardboard one

i need answers

Showed up to class 15 hours late with Starbucks

Anonymous whispered:
And the thing with that TNTP blog is that they waste time on the most ridiculous things. Yes, we get it, thin shaming is just as bad as any other form of body shaming. We all get that. Why are you wasting your time with ONE person who kindly and generally asked (I don't think they were grabbing anyone in particular by the collar) if they could tag something. Simple as that. And then the whiny-ass mods of that blog go batshit and blog about it for three days straight. They need a real job.

Plus, being triggered by a thin body is not thin shaming. A trigger is not controllable.

I don’t have any legitimate triggers (I do have a phobia that can cause a mild panic attack), but there are certain brand names and images that vividly remind me of bad shit that went down in my childhood. Not enough to cause a traumatic experience, maybe depress my mood but that’s nowhere near the same. Point is is that a trigger is 

a) Something that is associated with a traumatic experience, which can be literally anything.

b) NOT CONTROLLABLE. Unless you can get it worked out in therapy.

c) Does not indicate a hate of the trigger. The phobia I mentioned before? Not something I hate, oddly enough. I hate being afraid of it, but not it in itself. 

Anonymous whispered:
i sounded suer sarcastinc and bitter tbh but really thats what hapens when you see someone defending someone's trigger and not being aware of people who could have triggers for violence. i can visualize words very clearly in my head and it reminded my of the scars on my wrist. ive gotten better now mostly but i still have urges sometimes. thank you for reading

I AM aware of triggers for violence, I try to be sympathetic for triggers in general but I forget that people actually… follow my blog. I often feel ignored so I don’t think about someone being triggered by an untagged post. That’s why I only tag things once a follower has expressed actual interest in it, because then I know that someone benefits from the tagging. Occasionally I tag things like #rape if I remember but I’m much more likely to remember if I know there’s someone on the other side that needs it. 

Again, I’m sorry.

Anonymous whispered:
im still here sadly. i hoped you would understand because you understod another person's triggers. i agree with you completely. why are my triggers not taken seriously?? you posted knives just recently. im shaking. i cant breathe. i'm really sorry about the previous post. i wasnt thinking clearly honestly. i still am having trouble now

Ah, I am really sorry in that case. I thought it was another redditor trying to troll me, just a little more sophisticatedly.

I really don’t want to sound rude, but I probably would not have made the mistake if you had been off anon. Or additionally you could have simply asked me to start tagging razor/self harm related things. I really do understand the trigger thing, I just don’t tag until someone actually asks and since you said you were going straight to unfollow I didn’t think you were serious. Regardless, I shouldn’t be defending myself as I did make an unfair assumption. and if you ARE still following me I’ll be sure to tag things in the future. 

what I say: nice shirt
what I mean: duDE I'M IN THAT FANDOM

iraffiruse:

Some people might feel sorry for themselves in this situation

Puppy don’t care

Puppy’s got stuff to do

Puppy’s got places to be

Puppy’s got people to bark at and things to sniff.

cumberbitchen221b:

scampthecorgi:

We have no idea what he’s doing…

drinking water but in a punk rock way

Anonymous whispered:
I have the issues with extremist Tumblr SJWs and the bullshit they do, but on the other end of the spectrum, the anti-SJWs are really no better if not worse. I don't understand why people feel they always have to take shit so personally. Like dude if someone has a trigger what are you accomplishing by mocking them? Go read a book or something. These people are obviously too bored.

exactly man. That one blog (something along the lines of “this is not thin privilege”) probably went out of its way to bitch out someone who was kindly asking mutual followers to tag something for them. Go find something else to do with your time, y’know?

imo the anti-SJWs are worse because there are actual fully racist, transphobic, sexist blogs out there and these people would rather bitch out the people that are (even if radically) trying to fix these issues than address them

Anonymous whispered:
Lol, anti-sjws with nothing better to do are trolling your blog because they're butthurt over the fact that not everyone will like their body? Grow up, anti-sjws and go beat off to that Popsicle stick you like so much.

pretty much my thoughts. Someone called me “skinny-shaming” when literally all I had done was say that they don’t get to decide what triggers are legit or not. Sounds like they were being hyper-defensive in my opinion

Anonymous whispered:
not the other anon but the razor threat is very triggering to me. i used to self harm and i am about to have a panic attack. death threats to anyone make me want to kill myself have a nice night i am unfollowing you

Mhmm yes because a calmly written angry message is exactly the precursor to a panic attack 

plus y’know an electric razor up the ass wouldn’t kill you unless you literally shoved it up into your colon and tore that shit up at which point you’d poison yourself with your own feces so it wasn’t a death threat

regardless, there’s the door out of my blog. Take a complimentary potato.

Anonymous whispered:
As a member of the Gnome-gendered community, I would appreciate it if you tagged your body-shaming, ableist, racist, transphobic Elf posts. Thank you, shitlord.

Cool beans I don’t post anything about elves -thumbs up- no problems frand

Goodnight!